Hello, I cant fix all of your problems because you have some "euro" parts I have never physically seen. (ABF Hall crank sensor, the coil) But I work on mostly VW's and I have 2 VEMS running om ABA/16v engines now. In the USA they use a magnetic sensor for the crank. So the trigger wheel is something that the VEMS should be able to run perfectly.
The ABA(2.0 8v) and VR6 ignition coils have an Ignitor that can be removed. This is fine as long as the VEMS ignition is set up for it. For no ignitor you want to use the VEMS "12v Power, or IGBT" instead of "Logic Level"
It is important to know that the "12v Power" outputs have their own pins in the EC36 connector. So for example you cannot just change from "logic level" to "12v Power" in the software, you must move a wire.
If you have a websho assembled ECU, let us know your ignition configuration from your order information (how many ignition drivers: 8, 4, 2). Then look at PhatBobsUserGuide to check that the correct wires are being used for those outputs.
About the tach in Megatune, 250 RPM is about right for cranking, and the red zone can be changed in the Megatune .ini file. But it's (the red) not hurting anything.