Had a look at the car today and noticed it was my one mistake!
Because it worked fine before i did the wiring i looked first to the thing i changed.
Before i had a USB powering the VEMS Bluetooth adapter. I had a look inside the Bluetooth adapter and i noticed pin9 on the RS232 connector was connected to the positive 5v connection.
I thought it would by very nice and clean to get the power from the RS232 connector so i don't need a separate USB anymore. So i connected the 5v from the VEMS on pin 9
works nice and the Bluetooth adapter powered up!
But then a the problems happened. fuel pump starts running and car wont start.
I disconnected the 5v from the vems and powered the adapter from a USB and all works fine now! :p