got it resolved.. atfer doing a hareware test which checked out as well as my wiring.. one sensor was bad, the second had a horrible connection on a loose pin in the new sensor.. so neither would heat.
so i spent all day testing wire and hardware test, trying another ecu, trying config in a running car, to find out the two sesnors i was working with were at fault.
anyway i learned even more which was the overall benefit.. thanks to all who helped.