Well theres been a lot of shit slung at VEMS, and yet people forget that its been running the Time Attack S13s for about four years without a single issue. People love bad mouthing things, yet have not one tangible thing they can point out as a fault.
If you look round on here you'll see that there are a lot of complaints about certain features, and a lot of successes - the key thing it that this is a DIY system, it has a load of solid features and stuff that is only on high-end ecus, but has plenty of niggles.
If you want a fit and forget system then its going to take work to get it going, if you want a system to experiment and fiddle around with, then VEMS aint such a bad choice.