In the late dark and freezing hour the relay was turned 90deg and the 12V was supplied directly to VEMS over a 15A fuse. I'm happy that nothing else broke. From now i'm just going to fuse everything i connect to it with separate fuses.
I was actually planning to connect 3 relays to it, had 2, but now left with only 1 output. IS there maybe some way to gain access to some other free pin?
It looks like it can be a config conflict too, the pins for ignition was not verified(reselected) after a firmware upgrade, and seems to be in conflict state, but runs fine so i did not touch it then.